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6 Times He Wants You to Take Control

By Cosmopolitan.com

By Dara Adeeyo

1. In the Bedroom

Most dudes love doing it doggy style because they’re the ones who can control how fast or slow you guys go. But feel free to switch it up!Get on top and tell him to not move as you go for a ride. Or, initiate having intercourse somewhere unusual like the kitchen counter. Taking him by surprise will turn you both on…

2. Date Night

Traditionally, the guy is the one who plans the date. Grab him by surprise by telling him, “Don’t book anything for Saturday night. We’re going out.” You’ll leave him on the edge of what is going to go down on your date and longing to see you ASAP.

3. Vacation Plans

Some guys are totally okay with getting involved in this. In fact, some dudes actually have a tendency to over plan and cram activities into your vacay. You need to jump in there so your time away together isn’t too crazy. Plan adventures that will help you two discover new sides of each other.

4. Social Settings

Does your guy have a tendency to latch on to you when you’re hanging out in groups? Encourage him to mingle with the boys-or your friends-by himself. Or, throw out some activity suggestions for him to do on the weekend. You know, instead of planting himself on the couch and playing video games all day…

Read more at Cosmopolitan.com!

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