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By TresSugar

Honor the major moments:  Keep it simple by marking it on your calendar the first time she mentions it, and when the date arrives, let her know you’re thinking of her by sending flowers to her office, leaving a sweet voicemail, or even writing a simple text message – it really is the thought that counts.

  • Connect with your favorite pastimes:  Similar interests are what brought you together in the first place, so why not  swap recipes, read the same book at the same time, and recap your favorite TV shows over the phone.
  • Take advantage of technology. Staying connected has become more effortless than ever. On an everyday basis, share photos or make lunch-hour phone dates a priority.
  • Share everyday tidbits. Part of what makes long-distance friendships so different is the absence of day-to-day details.  Share that random anecdote about your co-worker, tell her about your favorite lunch spot, and fill her in on the happenings of your local pals – then ask her to do the same.
  • Be the queen of “just because.” Sure, significant milestones like birthdays and anniversaries should be remembered, but it’s even more meaningful to hear from a friend just because. Whether you write a letter, send a hilarious greeting card, or call out your inside joke on social media, those little gestures will add up.

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