By EMandLO.com
Dear Em & Lo,
I’ve been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and we love each other very much, but she is way more into sex than I am. I try to match her libido but she is still too much for me. She also likes to use sex just to pleasure herself or relieve stress, but she’s been getting too restless as the years go by. I’m actually getting worried that we may break up because of our differences. I don’t know what to do – can you please help?
– Be Careful What You Wish For
Dear B.C.W.Y.W.F.,
First of all, we should admit straight out that we don’t have an easy answer for you – in fact, the main reason we chose to answer your letter is because we felt like it would help so many people to read it. Wildly different libidos is one of the most difficult obstacles to overcome in a relationship (well, that and the whole porn issue), but too many people assume that libido problems are all about menwanting sex more than women. In fact, we receive just as many – if not more – letters about the opposite problem, i.e. yours – women wanting sex more than men.
