Rocky Moments Every Relationship Faces
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A big fight over nothing
Those Facebook friends that seem to have the perfect life with the flawless husband they adore at all times? Even they face tough times like these.
There are major issues couples commonly squabble over — like sex, money, and kids, all of which we’ll get to in a minute — but if you’re going through a rough spot over what seems like nothing at all, you’re not alone. “Marriage is a lightning rod that absorbs stress from every source — past and present,” says psychologist Harriet Lerner, author of “Marriage Rules: A Manual for the Married and the Coupled Up”. “When stress gets high enough, even the best couple can look like the most dysfunctional one.”
Financial struggles
Whether or not you believe money is the root of all evil, there’s no denying it’s responsible for a big chunk of relationship problems. The tough economic climate doesn’t help, but even in the best of times, most couples will go through a rough patch. “My husband and I were ready to get married young, and we’re still glad we did, but it was definitely a struggle to adjust to managing our finances as a couple while dealing with student loans and finding jobs,” says Chelsea S., 27, of Findlay, OH. “Seriously talking about our biggest goal — to purchase our first home together — made us both more willing to make some sacrifices without resenting the shopping or new car we had to give up. It was still tough, but now that we’re settled in, we’re glad we saved for our life together.”
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