Dear Kym Sellers,
I’m a well-educated, financially-stable woman. That being said, I have standards when it comes to dating. But it wasn’t until I stopped being so adamant about what I wanted that I found love. I feel I’ve lost a little of my independence, because the men I’ve dated don’t really like that. Did I make a mistake by functioning as less of a “strong woman” and more like a “sweet, dependent” woman?
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According to YourTango, women who are seeking long-term relationships tend to find men with these traits most desirable:
- Successful, financially secure, smart and capable
- Trustworthy, honest, of good and solid moral character, loving
- Fun, funny, communicative, good company
- Attractive (Women can and do develop attraction over time much more so than men can)
- Active, enjoying some key shared passions and activities
A man is most likely to find a woman to be desirable and a candidate for potential relationship if she’s:
- Attractive to him (Both her face and body type)
- Nice, kind, sweet, warm, thoughtful, respectful and appreciative
- Fun to be with, positive, upbeat, a happy person
- Sharing passions, activity interests and compatible lifestyles
- Intelligent and has workplace accomplishments
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