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#1 – He’s Afraid

Some men really struggle to control their emotions, and a lot of men become extremely scared when they become vulnerable. If they’re starting to develop deep feelings for you, it can become quite overwhelming.

It can become even more overwhelming if you’re echoing his deep feelings back at him. If you start talking about plans for the future, or about how you want to be with him forever, it can make him feel completely exposed emotionally. Some men can’t cope with it, and literally start to pull away from the relationship altogether.

When a man opens up and reveals his feelings for you, it’s almost like a cat rolling over and exposing it’s stomach to you. He has to trust you completely. How can you help him?

If he wants to talk about his feelings, listen intently to everything he says. When you’re talking about the future or other emotive subjects, be gentle. Remember falling in love is just as scary for us as it is for you.

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