The holiday fight: You hardly ever see your family, but your husband gets moody when he has to spend the holidays with them, so you end up feeling resentful. How to avoid it: Though you may want to suck up as much time with your loved ones as possible, don’t plan on spending 24/7 with […]
It might be time to let go of our general assumption that long-distance relationships are pure torture. The news this year has been that LDRs not only work–they work just as well if not better than the regular old shared-zip-code kind of relationship. The latest study, which looked at 717 people in long-distance relationships and […]
But here’s my question: Should I be the one to do the stringing along, or “be the man” during the holidays? And with all the activity I’ve been receiving from guys in private lately, I’m wondering, should I be as desperate as they are? After all, having all the attention is stirring up my hormonal […]
1. You Keep Restating Your Concerns If you have already stated your case, and your loved one decides not to agree, then let it go. At this point you have two options: you can keep your opinions to yourself and be a supportive friend (as needed.) Or, you can choose to pull back from the […]
1. Send him an R-rated text: Remember when you were first dating and you snapped that saucy photo of yourself in the fitting room at Victoria’s Secret and how it drove him wild? Even if you’ve been married for 25 years (or if you’re tying the knot soon!) it doesn’t mean spontaneous, flirty texts have […]
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Focus on you Many times, the reason you want to change your spouse is because you are so focused on him/her. Change your focus from your spouse to you. You’ll see all the changes you need first. When you change, your spouse is likely to change, or at least your perspective will. Give first If […]
1. You Flaunt Your Holiday Haul You know that couple that loves to shower each other with extravagant presents? Diamond bracelets, Rolex watches, bow-wrapped BMWs, luxury cruises-nothing says holiday love to them like a maxed-out credit card. Well, nine times out of ten that couple also delights in rubbing their glitzy gifts in other people’s […]
1. Because You Think You’ll Miss Out On Something Many men think they’ll miss out on freedom, fun with the boys, or other things when a good woman “locks” them down. What they don’t realize is how much they can truly gain from the love of a good woman. 2. You’re Afraid of What Your […]
The mysterious ways of female desire have been confounding the male brain since the beginning of time. Earlier this year, a survey discovered that 42 percent of women want cheese over oral sex. Yes, you read that right. Then recently, 76 percent of women admitted they prefer “me time” over sex. Read More
According to a new survey by eHarmony, opposites do attract in that they’re drawn to each other at first. But sadly for Paula Abdul and MC Skat Kat, opposites only tend to be attracted to each other for a short time, but eventually, their differences will eventually drive them apart and cause them to attack […]
The first question most strangers ask me is “How tall are you?” If I’m feeling charitable, I answer honestly: “6-foot-2.” They often follow-up with, “Do you ever date shorter men?” Consider this my full answer. First off: Yes, I have. Which makes me weird. The average woman is eight percent shorter than her male partner. […]