When both partners are in a place of comfort and safety, the mind of each person has the space to let go of inhibitions and stresses that have been built up during the day and focus on the sex ahead. Men, on average, are ready to roll in the sack within a few seconds of being aroused, but a woman’s body must be in a state of comfort and she must feel safe in order for her to open up and be receptive. If a woman is in a space that doesn’t feel safe or comfortable, her body will shut down and treat her partner’s member as a threat and deny entry.
Creating a sacred space is necessary for building a deeper bond and an open, erotic life.
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