What’s important when you are searching for a soul mate?
- Agreeableness: According to the book, The Science of Happily Ever After, it’s most important to find someone who is agreeable. Why? Because in marriage you lose the ability to like your partner 3% each year, and lust declines even quicker at 8% each year, so the better long-term investment is to find someone you really like. Plus long-term studies point out that agreeable partners were better in bed and less likely to cheat.
- Self-Awareness: Our focus is on the other person and whether they are the right person, but what’s more important is who are you, what are your needs, how do you handle anger, disappointment, and family expectations? We all have blind spots, vulnerabilities and areas of weakness. Being aware of these is important before finding someone else and projecting on to them our unfinished business Read More
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