Can your relationship get through cheating? Absolutely! Is it going to take work? Most definitely! Is this going to take time? You betcha!! However, please understand that it will take both parties coming ‘twogether’ to do the real work to get through what got them to the cheating in order to get through the cheating.
Not everyone can forgive and move forward twogether and that’s okay, too, but the work still must be done in order for that individual to heal and move forward.
Infidelity is never easy, but once you are ready to step outside of what happened there’s something to be learned about self in the process. It’s an opportunity to see how you can become better as an individual.
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Once the healing has occurred DO BE OPEN to loving again.
DO BE OPEN to trusting again.
DO BE OPEN to sharing your life with someone again.
Find comfort in knowing that people are in our lives for a reason, a season, a lesson or a lifetime. They show up to teach us some awesome and amazing things about ourselves.
Yanni Brown is an author, blogger and relationship educator. If you asked her, “What’s love got to do with it?,” she’d answer without hesitation “Absolutely everything!” As far back as she can remember, Yanni has always been a passionate observer of relationships, intrigued with the dynamics of what works for some and didn’t work for others. She’s taken that passion and has made it a business. Yanni has been featured in Essence, Rolling Out, WCIU’s You and Me This Morning, the Six Brown Chicks blog and Black and Married With Kids. Best know for her appearance on OWN’s Iyanla: Fix My Life, Season 1 (“Fix My Backstabbing Friends”). Visit her at yannibrown.com.
The Real Questions To Ask If You Think Your Mate Is Cheating was originally published on blackdoctor.org
