3. There’s something missing – you don’t know what it is, but him/her looks great on paper, they fit well with your friends, they get a long with your parents, but there’s just something that’s not taking you over the edge. I mean, you like him/her, but you don’t know if your LIKE them like that, know what I mean? Sometimes it’s that gut feeling that tells you move away from something safe into something even better. Don’t confuse this feeling with lust for another person. In fact this has nothing to do with anyone outside of your relationship. It’s solely based on you and your mate. If you feel something just ins’t there, don’t rush it and don’t force it. Sometimes the person is great, but just not that great for you.
Is The 80/20 Rule Still Valid? 3 Signs That You May Be Settling was originally published on BlackDoctor.org