About Kym Sellers

Men’s top three regrets mostly had to do with not having sex… 1. Not approaching a possible partner because he was too timid. 2. Not being more sexually adventurous in his youth. 3. Not being more sexually adventurous when he was single. Read More

In a recent study by researchers at Bonn University Medical Center, men who were given the “love hormone” oxytocin (which is a naturally occurring compound in the body that we make when we hug, touch, kiss or share physical contact with someone we care about), displayed interesting results. With the additional oxytocin in their bloodstream, […]

In a survey of more than 4,000 of its female members, 68 percent said they were unfaithful because their relationships lacked good sex. More blame goes to five other major man mistakes: not being a gentleman in bed (stealing the covers and socks on in bed = a new squeeze?), selfishness, relying on overly-dirty, pornographic […]

Rules for Dumpers You’re over him. Here’s how to deliver the news nicely: 1. Never end a relationship via text message. You’re better than Russell Brand! A breakup should be at least slightly harder to initiate than a game of Words With Friends. 2. Don’t say you “want space” when you really just want to […]

If we’re being honest, we here at Smitten think that drinking and dating go hand in hand in a lot of ways. But only in moderation! There has to come a point where drinking could actually interfere with your relationship, right? Right. But it’s not for couples who drink a lot. And couples who don’t […]

1. Talk about sex: It’s a given, sex is key to a great relationship. And you may wonder, how much is … normal? According to research, the average couple has sex about 58 times a year, which is a little more than once a week. But, experts say, that it’s not about the quantity of sex, […]

 And according to a new study, your gut is the best indicator of whether your relationship will stay a happy one. Researchers at Florida State University studied 135 heterosexual couples who were married for less than six months and followed up with them every six months for a four-year period. What they found was interesting: […]

Here are some tips for being confident while dating. Remember, comfortable is not the same as confident. To be empowered, you must get in touch with your innermost self and learn to feel certain about who you are and what you stand for. This can pull you squarely out of the “I guess he’s good […]

The roles of husbands and dads is very important to men today. One of my main goals is to spend more meaningful time with my family, even if it means I have to take a different approach to my career. I recently finished my manifesto, called The Family Leader’s Manifesto, which is a call and […]

If we’re being honest, we here at Smitten think that drinking and dating go hand in hand in a lot of ways. But only in moderation! There has to come a point where drinking could actually interfere with your relationship, right? Right. But it’s not for couples who drink a lot. And couples who don’t […]

Can he pass the love test? So you’ve met a guy and you think he’s the one. Only the first date will tell but if your intuitions are right, you’re going to want to secure that second date. First dates are key and just like an interview, you need to come prepared. To avoid awkward […]