From the plethora of music videos to other media images featuring women with hefty rears, we’ve safely concluded one thing about black men: They love, and are in some ways obsessed, with big butts.

It’s Complicated Advice Q&A: “Should I Let Him Leave His Wife for Me?” by Redbook, on Thu Feb 24, 2011 9:39am PST Five years ago I met a married guy who fell in love with me. I knew he was married, so we didn’t communicate for three years, but when we did, our relationship blossomed. […]

Last week writer Tracy McMillan caused a stir on the Inter-nuts with an article she penned for Huffington Post entitled “Why You’re Not Married.” This week TheBVX hopes to shed a little more light on the “why am I not married” mystery from a man’s perspective. For the five of you that missed it, it […]

Side Piece Politics: The Rules Of Being “The Other Man/Woman” By Anslem Samuel on Feb 18th 2011 12:00PM Infidelity is not something that should be condoned, but it is understood that it’s unfortunately a reality of life. People cheat, get cheated on and a lot of times get caught cheating. Therefore, the name of the […]

Do We Control Our Fate, Or Does Fate Control Us? By Rebecca Brody on Feb 22nd 2011 3:00PM Though Valentine’s Day has already passed, I’m still in the mood to see movies celebrating love. Having stumbled into The Adjustment Bureau, starring Matt Damon, Emily Blunt, and Anthony Mackie, I got more than I bargained for. […]

10 Things You Should Never Say To A Man by StyleCaster, 2 hours 10 minutes ago Whether you’re casually dating someone or you’ve been wifed up for years, there are some things you should never say to your man. Of course you want to be yourself and speak your mind, but there are ways to […]

Abusive Boyfriends Sabotage Birth Control Shocking statistics reveal men are tricking their partners into having babies! -Libby Keatinge, BettyConfidential.com Would a man trick a woman into having a baby by sabotaging her birth control? A new report sheds light on this new form of abuse that is seriously shocking! In a survey of callers to […]

This Valentine’s Day, Michelle Obama was kind enough to offer up some advice to couples on keeping their romance alive. After all, she and Barack have been married for 19 years.

Are you a side chick? Today is Valentine’s Day and we have to ask, what woman would sacrifice her self respect for a man who’s already committed? If you’re having second thoughts on where your relationship is, take a look at the top 10 signs you are the side chick from our sister site theboxhouston.com:

I’m sick and tired of playing house! Marry me or else! Men speak out! Why mess up a perfectly good relationship by getting married?

Are You Giving Him Too Much? by BettyConfidential.com, 23 hours ago -Julia Austin, BettyConfidential.com    You were the world’s greatest girlfriend. You made him dinners! You planned a surprise party for him! Sent him care packages! Gave him one of your kidneys…maybe not. Either way, you were thoughtful, giving, selfless and he left you. Now […]

Women Choosing Their Husband’s Friends: A Sad State of Affairs. By Mason Jamal on Feb 15th 2011 2:32PM Filed under: Mason Says I’ve always been partly amused, partly aghast by a man who allows his significant other to dictate which of his friends are socially suitable to hang out with. It’s becoming more and more […]