The saying goes “Fake it till you make it,” but that shouldn’t apply in the bedroom. If you’re not in the mood to get down, but your husband always is, it can create serious tension—and not the good kind—in your relationship.

You get home early from work one day and notice your husband’s car in the driveway. Sweet, you’ll get to spend some extra time together! You walk in the house and decide to keep quiet and surprise him...