Sexual triggers are discovered.
Each person has a different set of sexual triggers that begin the arousal state and prepare the body for intercourse. When abstaining from sex, couples can learn what turns them on by incorporating activities that require touching and close bodily contact. Erotic massage performed by each partner on the other is a great way to survey each other’s bodies and to observe how the body changes when certain areas are stimulated. Laying hands on each other’s bodies further deepens bonding, intimacy and an understanding of what makes each other hot.
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Trust is deepened
Trust is at the base of any successful relationship and is necessary for both partners to thoroughly enjoy sex. The interesting thing about women is that their minds are directly connected with their vaginas, and if the mind perceives harm or any type of dishonesty or distrust the vagina goes into protection mode, making penetration uncomfortable. Establishing a solid level of trust makes a woman feel safe and allows each partner to feel secure within the relationship.
Passion is intensified.
When desire is strong between two partners and sex is reserved for a length of time, the passion within each partner begins to build up, turning a small flame of desire into a sweltering heat. Once the abstinence period is over and sex takes place the experience is intense. Imagine how amazing and memorable intensely heated sex would be during the wedding night. The sexual energy that would be generated during that time would be magical (maybe even magical enough to make a baby).
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Building trust, deepening passion, learning sexual triggers and creating a bond are all benefits to be experienced from committing to abstinence before marriage. It’s an amazing way to begin a new life with a life companion. Try it out for yourself if you are headed down the aisle this summer or suggest this process to a friend.
Glamazon Tyomi is a freelance writer, model and sex educator with a deeply rooted passion for spreading the message of sex positivity and encouraging the masses to embrace their sexuality. Her website, www.sexperttyomi.com, reaches internationally as a source for advice and information for the sexually active/curious. Follow her on Twitter at @glamazontyomi and the all-new “Glamazon Tyomi’s Sex Academy” radio show here.
No Sex Zone: Using Abstinence To Increase Intimacy Before Marriage was originally published on blackdoctor.org
