Get Well Wednesday: 'Is Weight Ruining Your Sex Life?'

Dr. Draion M. Burch, DO (Dr. Drai) – a highly respected, board-certified Obstetrician and Gynecologist – is a nationally-recognized author, speaker, consultant, and go-to media expert on women’s health and transgender health issues. He travels the country to meet with women one-on-one and in groups to provide and instruct on healthcare.

Although Dr. Drai may be requested to spread his medical expertise to all four corners of the U.S., he always makes time to genuinely help those in need. As a pragmatic physician who offers endless charisma, high energy, and a larger-than-life personality, his “bedside manner” makes it obvious why his patients have named Dr. Drai “America’s OB-GYN.”

Dr. Drai is the founder and chief medical advisor of DrDrai.com, where he discusses actionable ideas and real-world strategies to help women take control of their health. As an openly gay gynecologist, he has patients flocking to him and his website for not only his medical expertise, but because of the security they feel in the way he cares for, relates to, and teaches women about subjects ranging from embarrassing vaginal care to serious sexual assault.

His mission: Real medical advice, simplified. Dr. Drai takes his unique brand to the camera on his YouTube channel to spill his popular “Medical T” (TIPS) helping his self-titled #Preggos, #GYNEGirls and #GENTs pursue a healthier life. Dr. Drai’s on-point advice on off-the-wall questions about sexual health issues has many calling him a “sexpert.”

Dr. Drai earned his undergraduate degree from Xavier University of Louisiana, Doctorate of Osteopathic Medicine degree from The Ohio University, and completed his internship and residency at Michigan State University.

Is weight ruining your sex life? Read more HERE. 

Dr. Drai answers your sex questions, next page. 

How can my man last longer?

Try the start-stop technique. Before he orgasms, have him pull out. When his “sensation” dies down, go back at it again.  Have fun!

Good morning, Doctor. My husband and I have been married for 10 years now and he has never had it orgasm during oral sex. What am I doing wrong?

Hunni, tickle his G-spot next time you are giving him oral. Press upward on the area between his testes and anus. That’s where the prostate it. He’ll love it. 😜

I have a tingling sensation after I urinate. It goes away but rears it’s annoying head once I urinate again. What is going on? 

Sounds like you may have a bladder infection. Schedule an appointment with your DOC.

Does the penis shrink with age or weight?

Unfortunately, yes. Have you ever noticed that tall, skinny men have big penises? That’s because they have no belly fat. Exercise the penis by masturbating. Wink!

For a male that is overweight in the mid section. ..can losing weight increase penis size?

Yes. The more fat he loses in his belly, the more his penis will grow.

Hey, Dr. Drai, is there any way to make husbands penis bigger?

He needs to lose his belly fat. Or to make your vagina seem smaller; have sex in the missionary position, tilted up with your legs crisscrossed in the air. Thank me later!

Isn’t it true semen can help clear up period pimples? I’ve been trying to tell my girl that it helps.

Not true. Nice try buddy! Make her an appointment with a dermatologist.

Can a penis bruise a woman’s bladder?

Not “bruise” BUT it can hit the bladder during sex. Pee before sex.

My wife of twenty years has never made me have an orgasm orally. How can she get to that level?

Have her tickle your G-spot (between the testes and the anus.) Be open minded.

How can you make your penis bigger and keep from coming so fast?

There’s no way to make it bigger naturally. Lose weight to make it longer. Masturbate before date night to help you last longer.

My fianceé has a small uncircumcised penis. What are some positions we can do sexually that may be satisfying for both of us?

Throw the lube out the door. Try missionary with your pelvis tilted up and have your legs crisscrossed, this makes your vagina smaller. There’s always anal sex.

How do you build your sperm count?

Wear boxers and no hot tubs or skinny jeans. Exercise and eat healthy.

 How can you get a man to orgasm quickly orally?

You have to find his ‘SPOT.’ Tickle his prostate.

How can I prevent climaxing so quickly?

Pull out before you orgasm. Let the sensation pass and then go inside of her again.

Doc, can a broken penis be repaired?

Yes; it’s a medical emergency.

His penis is curved downward and it hurts in most positions like me on top and doggie style. Any recommendations?

Get on top reverse cowgirl. Grind instead of jumping up and down. Use lube.

How can I stop re-occurring yeast infections? My doctor confirmed there is not STI. My symptoms reappear after condom use, even non-latex and lambskin condoms.

Sugar encourages the overgrowth of yeast. Eliminate sugars in your diet.

What type of doctor should a female see that experiences spontaneous orgasms? It can happen at anytime – while driving on the freeway, sitting watching TV (it can be a drama,comedy, sci-fi, or musical) walking or at anytime. The GYN suggested gabapentin and lidocaine but didn’t really know what to do.

Unfortunately, we don’t have a definite cure for persistent genital arousal disorder.

My GYN retired and his replacement will only do a pap smear on me every 5 years. I’m over 50 and have had an abnormal one in the past. Should I be concerned?

No. Over 50, you get a PAP smear every 5 years as long as it’s negative and you don’t have Human Papillovirus (HPV).

I have foreskin and sex with my wife lots of times result in yeast infections for her. I’ve read that coconut oil for me can help. I have no STI’s. Please help, because she is holding out and I don’t want to cheat.

Please don’t cheat. Try garlic cloves. Garlic kills yeast. Put a clove in the vagina at night. Take it out in the morning. Also she needs to change her diet. Women with sweet tooths have lots of yeast. Sugar causes yeast to grow.

 It is well known what a man releases when he has a orgasm but what does a women release?

She releases ejaculate.

My new man has a small penis. What can I do to help keep him inside of me?

He’s the perfect man and has other skills in bed but I feel like he is not getting to orgasm except through oral sex.

Try anal sex.

Is it true for every 10 pounds of weight loss you gain 1 inch in length of the penis?

Not true. But your penis goes get longer if you lose belly fat.

Yes, you need to have your breasts checked. If you have your ovaries, your DOC needs to feel them to make sure they are not large.

Yes see an urologist especially if erections are painful.

Swallowing is BAD. I understand that he’s your husband but you can get a STI if he’s cheating. Protect yourself, darling.

Yes, your vagina is thinning. Use lube. Tell him not to be so rough. You can actually put a hole in the thin walled vagina.

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