Are you in a dead-end relationship? Have you asked for a certain level of commitment but never received it? Maybe…just maybe you could be wasting your time, holding out hope for a man who’s not trying to be with you long term.
I want to spare you the disappointment of getting your hopes up over a man who’s going to waste your time, get you to fall for him and then leave. You can find out early in a relationship which men are good prospects for marriage and avoid a lot of heartache. But you need to pay attention, you can’t sweep things you don’t want to see under the rug or pretend they don’t matter. You don’t want to make the mistake of giving up your heart and your freedom to a man who only wants to use you.
One big mistake that can complicate the dating process is if you get physical with a man too soon. It’s like putting blinders on, once you feel physically attached, it’s harder for you to discern a man’s true intentions. It’s all too easy to end up mistaking sexual interest for love. Why You Should Not Hope To Find Love EXPERT
Here are some warning signs that he’s not in it for the long haul:
- Your dates fall into a rigid pattern of dinner and going to bed. There’s little deviation from this routine or little if any interaction with other people. You start to feel you’re expected to go to bed with him every time you’re together, as though buying you dinner gives him the right to go home with you.
- You want to see him, so you let it be by his rules. When he calls for a date, it’s always at the last minute. He expects you to be available to see him whenever he wants. He has plenty of excuses why he can’t plan ahead and you only get together when it’s convenient for him. He won’t commit ahead to parties, family get-togethers or holiday events and usually ends up being a no-show at the last minute.
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