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If Your boyfriend and or girlfriend were dying and only sex can save them, you aren’t there but your best friend is, would you let your best friend save them?

Ahh the test of true love, an interesting dilemma that of course is not true but an interesting scenario.  I was once asked  “if you and your young child was on a boat and your child fell in and was drowning and you could not swim what would you do?”  It was a no brainer to me jump in and save my baby, but the person pointed out that if you jump in not being able to swim you would not save your baby and ultimately both die.  The person said the correct answer of sacrifice and love would be you should stay in the boat continue to live and procreate ie: have more children.  Sounds a little harsh doesn’t it, but true, life and love is about growth.  In order to love something you must have order and let it grow, if it can not,  than love dies.  Watch this if your boyfriend/girlfriend were dying and only a blood transfusion could save them and you are not there but your bestie is wouldn’t you want them to donate that blood, the same rule applies if sex was the saving factor.  Look if your bestie having sex with your boo saves their life so be it, you get to have your boo forever, and what a test of friendship by besties.  Plus if sex is the only determining factor in your relationship maybe you should move on now after reading this because you guys aren’t going to make it anyway.   When you love someone you should be willing to die for them so a little sex shouldn’t bother you in a life or death situation.  Remember if you love something let it go, if it returns to you it is yours, if doesn’t then it never really was.  In the words of the late Marvin Gaye “You Gots To Give It Up”

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