1. Why is she talking like that? There are three types of voices: low voices, high voices, and “I’m going to try and be cute by purposefully talking in a high pitched baby voice.” Sometimes this is cute; sometimes it just gives us a headache.
2. Why is she smiling at me? Everyone is a sucker for a nice smile, but guys really pay attention to how you smile at them. Are you smiling politely, or are you giving them a sidelong glance across the room? Have you totally stopped caring and broken into a genuine giant grin because of something funny the guy said? The last one is the most rewarding.
3. What is she wearing? Either it’s “Why did she walk outside like that?” or “Holy crap, I am so glad she walked outside like that.”