He wants to cuddle. A cuddler is a keeper, according to relationship expert Wendy Walsh, PhD, author of The 30-Day Love Detox. His habit shows he’s a guy who’s ready to form secure attachments, is comfortable with affection, and wants you for more than a booty call.
He doesn’t want to cuddle. Most guys fall in this category, according to Walsh. The average guy thinks that the definition of “after play” is the duration of time between his orgasm and the time it takes to reach for his phone. Don’t take it personally: Guys are wired differently and many don’t like after play. The only time you should be concerned: If he was a cuddler and now isn’t. It could be a sign that there’s unspoken tension in your relationship.
