How To Have Multiple Orgasms

There are hundreds of articles written yearly advising women on how to reach orgasm, but rarely is the subject of being multi-orgasmic discussed in detail. This is probably because the average woman has difficulty with having a single orgasm during a typical sexual experience, and for many women this issue has been embraced and accepted as the norm. Every woman has the ability to orgasm, but she must first believe this is possible and then become educated about her own anatomy and how every part can work together to bring her euphoric pleasure as well as healing power.

Unlike the male sexual response cycle, the female sexual body is able to have multiple orgasms within one sexual experience and the process to get there isn’t difficult. However, becoming multi-orgasmic does require work and practice, much of which has everything to do with energy work before going into physical intercourse. To become multi-orgasmic is to become free and commanding of your own sexual energy as a woman, and from this your body will experience sensations like never before.

If you are interested in beginning the journey into becoming multi-orgasmic and having a command over full body orgasms, begin working on the suggested activities below and start your journey into sexual awakening.

1. Learn your anatomy.

Learning how your sexual body functions is the first step to becoming multi-orgasmic. The clitoris is responsible for the female orgasm, but there are also other spots within the vagina and around the vulva that can also encourage an orgasm when stimulated. Woman’s Anatomy of Sexual Arousal by Sheri Winston is the perfect book to help any woman discover her sexual anatomy and become educated about how it works and how to care for it.  Education is the first step in becoming multi-orgasmic.

2. Become comfortable. 

In order for an orgasm to be experienced a woman must feel safe in her environment and safe within her body. If your mind is congested with the stresses of the day or if your body is anxiously anticipating the elated feelings of an orgasm chances are your comfort level will be low. Before going into a sexual situation with your significant other or before going into solo sex take the time to speak to your mind and your body to reach a place of safety and comfort.  It’s okay to relax into the feelings of arousal. It’s okay to give yourself permission to experience pleasure. Relax your mind and your body will follow.

The Multi-Orgasmic Woman: What It Means & 5 Tips To Help You Get There  was originally published on blackdoctor.org