You are sitting chillin with your boo with a glass of wine but his/her phone is face down, buzzing and they are ignoring it. Are you cool with that? Are You Down For Phone Down?
Today on Sam Sylk’s Reality Hour Rewind a sista is dealing with that plus some of her own phone buzzing issues and Sam is shocked at the “REAL” that really goes down more often and than not but he has a reality check for this listener.
Dear Sam Sylk
I have been dating this guy for about a year after nine months we moved in together, but about a few months ago his ex texted me to ask if we were dating. I didn’t respond as I wanted to speak to my boyfriend about it first, and she proceeded to send me screenshots of all the messages between him and her. I confronted him about it, and he said that his ex was crazy and that she was doing it because she was trying to take his son from him. I will say that during the time I have lived with him I haven’t seen him call or video chat with her and he has been home every day after work. He is very secretive with his phone though, putting it face down or turning it away while texting. He told me he loved me and that I’m overreacting. I want to believe him, but every time I bring it up he gets angry and refuses to talk to me. He says I’m insecure and need to work on that because he is getting fed up. I don’t know what to do. Do you think he is lying and should I just leave?