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1.) Scoop the cat box: My friend says: “I hate my wife’s cat, but she is pregnant, so it’s the least I can do. There I am scooping his nasty poop every day and tying it off in a baggy. I am such a good husband.” Ha. I hear him. My husband scoops the cat […]

I suppose there is always a time in a relationship where you have enough foresight to recognize that the end is near. You could even ask yourself if you would rather hurt now or hurt later. You could end it and move forward without the inevitable blame and shame game.   But what if you […]

I Can Change Them A man with potential can be transformed like a butterfly. Or so I used to think. That’s why I would take them in when they were just caterpillars and waited for their process to begin. Thing is you can’t change a man into becoming something he’s not. If he does change, […]

This week, the oldest state university in California crowed it’s first African-American couple as homecoming king and queen. According to reports, San Jose State University…

Sadly, another Black woman is facing discrimination for her hairstyle of choice. Last month, we learned about 7-year-old Tiana Parker who was kicked out of…

Hot flashes can be one of the most uncomfortable symptoms of menopause, and so far western medicine has provided no cure. But there’s hope for…

1. The situation: You’re on a second date with a smart, funny guy. But his last 20 out of 21 sentences have been wisecracks or clever comments. By the entrée, you know this isn’t a match. You’re looking for someone slower, more relaxed, somebody who can be quiet with you. Spending time with him has […]

We know your head must be foggy in a newborn haze – caring for a six-month-old baby is more than enough for one woman to handle with a supportive partner. But add in the lying, the cheating, the philandering, and the debt, and it’s no wonder you’re unable to think straight.    Will things work […]

1. “Once a cheater, always a cheater.” Perhaps you feel your friend should never again trust the person who was unfaithful to her. “But this type of all-encompassing comment leaves no room for the possibility of the situation getting better,” says Dr. Sherman. “You’re squashing all hope, when, in fact, some relationships do heal and […]

Despite the numerous bumps in the road, we finally made it to our wedding day. My fiancé drove back to New York about a week before we were to be married. I had already left to head to my hometown to start and finish other preparations for the wedding. While I was gone, he settled […]

A North Carolina Republican’s inner bigotry exploded for all the world to see this week when he sat down with “The Daily Show’s” Aasif Mandvi.