Dear Whys Guy: “Why is My Ex Contacting Me on Facebook?” By Aaron Traister, REDBOOK DEAR WHYS GUY: What does it mean when a guy you briefly dated but haven’t seen for almost three years suddenly finds you on Facebook? Related: 50 Weird Things He Loves About You DEAR REDBOOK READER: I don’t understand Facebook well […]

“What Do Guys Really Think When a Woman Wears Granny Panties?” By Aaron Traister, REDBOOK DEAR WHYS GUY: Are guys grossed out when they see their wife or girlfriend in comfy, un-sexy underwear? Related: 75 Most Iconic Hairstyles of All-Time DEAR REDBOOK READER: Not really. My wife Karel has a pair of panties that we call “Big […]

Whys Guy Asks: “What Do You Say When Your Child Walks in on You?”  By Aaron Traister, REDBOOK   Last week was a rough week for my oldest kid. It’s been raining, so he hasn’t gone outside; he started his first day of five-day pre-K; then 48 hours after starting his highly-anticipated school year, he was […]

Dear Whys Guy: “Can He Forgive Me For Going Crazy?” By Aaron Traister, REDBOOK DEAR WHYS GUY: Once a woman “goes crazy” on a man, can her boyfriend or husband’s view of her ever change? Is there ever hope of a reconciliation? By “crazy,” I mean when a woman feels insecure in a relationship and gets […]