Top 8 Things that Will Ruin Your Relationship

Top 8 Things that Will Ruin Your Relationship

by HybridMom, 6 hours 39 minutes ago

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1. Money: #1 issue couples fight about – money
    – Money is valued differently – one is a “saver” the other a “spender”
    – Money represents different things for each person in the relationship – know the differences and respect them.  Your partner’s view is not “stupid” or “ridiculous”
    – Communicate your individual attitudes and values about money to each other
    – Keep money in its proper perspective in your relationship – money represents a commodity – not love

2. Lack of Effective Communication
    – Just because we have said something doesn’t mean we have communicated anything
    – The SINGLE biggest issue with communication – the false belief or impression that it has taken place
    – Must have “active listening” for effective communication, i.e., the ability to listen to what your partner has to say without your own “hidden agenda”
    – Choose words carefully and with sensitivity – the more emotionally charged the topic of discussion- the more important it is to do this

3. Commitment
    – Lack of commitment to the value of yourself
    – Lack of commitment to your partner
    – lack of real commitment to your relationship
    – Are you committed enough to all of the above to do what it takes to make your relationship work?
    – Do you provide the level of commitment to your partner that you are asking from them?
 

4. Failure to Prioritize Relationship
    – Do you put the time and effort required that shows your relationship is the most important thing in your life?
    – Schedule date night/ mornings/afternoon – anytime that is exclusively committed to your relationship – no interruptions/no excuses

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