The tricky part with instant-relationships is that whoever is rushing things is often the one who pumps the brakes. When you first start seeing each other, you might question how quickly things are moving. If he reassures you that everything is perfect, what reason do you have not to believe him? If his commitment-phobic ways reveal themselves later and he decides that actually he can’t do this after all, you’ll be left completely baffled. It can really screw with your mind. Read More
