4. Surprise her with sexy gifts.

Every woman loves to be surprised with a gift, especially when it speaks to her sexuality. It shows your interest in her and lets her know that you take interest in her sexual satisfaction. Add toys to her little black box, slip sexy lacey pieces into her underwear drawer or surprise her with a bouquet of flowers during her lunch hour with a little note attached that gives her instructions for the night ahead. Get creative with the gifts and remember to cater to her interests. Choose gifts sporting her favorite color or create a care package filled with wine, chocolates, candles and body care products to give her a romantic night in.

5. When in doubt, use candlelight.

Candlelight will always be synonymous with sensuality for its ability to cast whimsical shadows and create a romantic mood. Spark romance instantly by setting up a candlelit dinner at home or by using candlelight to create ambiance during bed time. Use scented candles in lavender, ylang ylang or sandlewood to help increase libido. Sometimes it’s the simple things that make a big impact.


Glamazon Tyomi is a freelance writer, model and sex educator with a deeply rooted passion for spreading the message of sex positivity and encouraging the masses to embrace their sexuality. Her website, www.sexperttyomi.com, reaches internationally as a source for advice and information for the sexually active/curious. Follow her on Twitter at @glamazontyomi and the all-new “Glamazon Tyomi’s Sex Academy” radio show here.

Be Marcus Graham Smooth! 5 Simple Ways To Be Mr. Romance (Again)  was originally published on blackdoctor.org

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