Partners with a satisfying sex life talk to one another; those with an unsatisfying one need to talk to one another.
Voice your concerns. Tell your partner about changes in your body that worry you along with any other issues that bother you about your sex life. Describe what makes you feel good. Your partner can’t satisfy you if he doesn’t know what you desire. Don’t criticize. Focus on what he’s doing right, rather than pointing out the things he’s doing wrong. Talk at the right time. During lovemaking is the right time for discussing what you like and enjoy. Save your concerns, worries, and more negative issues for outside the bedroom. Intimacy
#3: Improve Your Own Game
Take these steps to be a better lover:
Think about sex. The brain is possibly the most important sex organ. Get your head in the game by thinking about your fantasies and desires more often. Write down your sexual fantasies and share them with your partner. Touch. Maintaining physical affection is critical to keeping a love life happy and frisky. Cuddle, hug, kiss, and hold hands often, even if you’re tired or not in the mood for sex. During lovemaking, experiment with touching your partner in ways that please and arouse him. Educate yourself. There are plenty of self-help books available that will give you tips on improving your sexual technique.
#4: Have Fun
Don’t forget that sex is supposed to be an enjoyable experience. Be sure to have fun in the bedroom (and elsewhere) by:
- Trying out different sexual positions. The tried-and-true missionary position can become stale. Try having sex in different locations.
- Experimenting. Take a break from intercourse. Try pleasing each other with oral sex, manual sex, massage, and caressing. Read a love poem.
- Being inventive. Leave love notes. Try making love at different times of the day.
- Planning an erotic getaway. Leave problems behind and visit an exotic location where you can wear as little as possible and focus exclusively on each other.
Most importantly, have sex and enjoy intimacy on a regular basis with your partner.
4 Ways To Feel Sexy At Any Age was originally published on blackdoctor.org
