What do you do when you have been dating a person and they won’t let you meet their kids but their ex’s no boo can hang with the kids?
A loyal listener say’s that her man’s ex runs everything and she is starting to feel some kinda way about it so she reached out to, Sam Sylk, radio host of The Sam Sylk Show on 93.1 WZAK during his daily 1 pm Reality Hour segment, and Sam gave her some awesome advice on what to do with her so called man and his ex-wife.
I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he hasn’t really allowed me around his kids or start a relationship with them. I have met them. He has been divorced now for 4 years. His wife is very demanding of his time when it comes to their kids. I’m pretty much cool with all of that but I must say I’m not cool with the fact whenever he is with them he can’t talk to me. If I call he shoots me to voicemail. But let him call me and I don’t answer, all hell breaks loose. One day I was at the mall and I seen the kids with their mom, they looked at me and waved and kept walking. She called my man immediately furious that I spoke to her children. Which led to us getting into an argument. He says if I had kids of my own I would understand. But here is the kicker, I FB stalked her because I almost felt like they were still together. Well ole girl has got a man, I seen the pictures, but not only that there are pictures with her, her man and the kids. What kinda Shh is that!? I can’t figure it out. I feel like I should show my boyfriend, I mean does he know and if he does why can’t I be around the kids and that man can? All of this makes me feel like a bad person but I just want to be a part of his world. Any Advice?