When you say your wedding vows “___ to be my wedded husband/wife, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part,” I know didn’t think that the person that took those vows with you would hold them against you and not for your greater good.
A young brother thinks that his wife is taking advantage of their vows by being dishonest and possibly deceitful as it pertains to the having a children so he wrote in to Sam Sylk, radio host of The Sam Sylk Show on 93.1 WZAK during his daily 1 pm Reality Hour segment, to get some man to man advice.
Check out what same had to say to him in the video below
My wife and I have been married for 3 years and we have a 1 year old. We have been struggling financially. I want to get our lives together a little bit better before we have more children. My wife had agreed. Well my wife comes to me the other day excited that she is pregnant. I was in shock and fear all at the same time. I asked her wow I guess the pill didn’t work. She said she decided on her own not to take the pills she wanted another baby now. She also informed me that she knew she was pregnant for a month now and was just now telling and that she quit her job because she wants to be a stay home mom. When I said to her look we talked about this and you agreed we should wait to establish ourselves better, she said well my mom didn’t do that and everything worked out fine. Not to knock anybody but her mom has never worked, and living on the system was cool with her. My wife told me to have faith everything will work out. But I feeling severely betrayed. What should I do? If I can’t trust her with a plan for us to better our lives not only for us but our children, how can I trust her moving forward? I feel bad but the thought of having another child is making me sick to my stomach.