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Hooking Up: 5 Rules for Booty Calls By John Ortved, Glamour magazine Yesterday I wrote about a friend of mine who responded to a booty call from a guy she really likes (jury is out on whether he feels the same way…though his behavior certainly indicates that he doesn’t). The post got me thinking that […]

10 Things to Say to the One You Love The intense emotion of love is almost indescribable. Many infatuated individuals struggle with their words when trying to decide just how to express the depth of their emotion. Instead of fumbling over potential phrases in your head, select some proven classics that can share your emotion […]

“Help! My Gay Ex Wants Me Back!”   You’ve got questions? He’s got answers! Need advice? Send your questions to Terrance: girlworkonyou@aol.com Dear Gay Best Friend, My ex-boyfriend became gay on me. We were together for four years and last year he broke up with me to be with a man. He told me that […]

  Obama hasn’t shied away from talking about his birthday, noting that his hair is getting grayer and his metabolism is slowing down as another year passes. White House press secretary Robert Gibbs says that while there’s no doubt that the presidency comes with enormous physical and mental strain, Obama “greatly enjoys” the job.

  Mary J Blige has released her new perfume “My Life”. In doing so, Mary set a new record as she sold over 50 thousand bottles of it in just ONE weekend on the Home Shopping Network.

25 Things Guys Do at Gyms That Will NOT Get Them Sex Photo from A.Blight/Flickr alt= Some men go to the gym to work out. But that’s not the only reason. I can’t think of a place I’ve been hit on more than in health clubs, surpassing even bars and dance joints. For men on […]

Did you realize at the altar that you shouldn’t get married?

5 Limits To Being A “Ride Or Die” Chick There is something about the infamous “ride or die” chick that men love. They love the fact that she is loyal, and trustworthy.  Oh, and the idea that she will never leave – no matter what he does. Every man has some idea in his mind […]

What’s The Worst Thing About Being Single? It is not the loneliness. I’m fine doing what I want whenever I want. In fact, now that I’ve mastered making coffee in my new French press, I officially don’t have to leave my apartment again. It’s not the unsatisfied craving for sex. I can get by without […]

 Married Crushes: Is Flirting Harmless? I have been married for seven years now, but I still get the occasional “crush” and so does my husband.  We point out the people we think are hot to one another and laugh at how I sometimes get giddy when I talk to one of my “crushes” on the […]

Why “It’s Not Your Fault” is so Hard to Swallow When you’re in a manipulative, destructive relationship, and it ends, oftentimes the manipulating person will place the guilt on you, adding insult to injury and exponentially magnifying your heartbreak. This is simply a case of the manipulative person projecting his/her behavior on to you. They […]