If you are single and over forty, odds are you have at least one big relationship failure in your life. Singles often ask me about the people they are dating and whether or not they are worth the risk. He’s been divorced and single for ten years. Is he ready? She’s never been married but […]

He Says Things Like “You’re The Only One Who…” When a man makes it clear how special you are (obviously), by saying you’re the only woman who’s ever done fill-in-the-blank for him or made him feel this way, he’s on his way to don the tux. You’re Invited To His Family Events If he imagines […]

1. You call him by his real name instead of whatever nickname you were using just so your friends could remember who he is. He’s finally become “John” instead of “skinny legs” or “pre-med.” 2. You feel excited about the idea of finally calling someone “my boyfriend.” You might have started calling him this already […]

How to tell if he’s interested in all of you…or just your body: It’s no wonder that many women find men’s sexual signals confusing. A man won’t ask a woman on a date unless he’s sexually attracted to her. But, women have a difficult time figuring out if a man is only interested in a […]

Hey, a relationship is all about balance. So, put your right hand out there and grab a leftie. 1. They Have Hotter Sex Does right vs. left matter in the sack? Oh, you bet. According to a recent survey, 86 percent of left-handed people reported they were “Extremely Satisfied” with their sex lives. Only 15 […]

Falling in love with nice girls is boring as hell. Look, there has to be something good about being with ‘nice girls’ when it comes to love/romance/sex (and all the things that make life worth living), but don’t ask me what it is. I guess, in a way, I imagine that prim and proper ladies […]

Realities to keep in mind as you journey to meet The One. 1. Timing Is Everything. The Supremes told us years ago, you can’t hurry love, and guess what? They were right. Sure, we’d like to control when The One comes along. Once we graduate college, score a fabulous career, and settle into our first […]

1. Even When You’re Sleeping Next To Someone, Your iPhone Sleeps Closer To You 2. You Go Shopping For Its Presents All The Time. 3. You Check On It Constantly, Even When It Hasn’t Buzzed … Just To Make Sure It’s Okay. 4. You Only Leave The House So You Have Something To Instagram Read […]

Don’t fret – there is someone out there waiting for you to stroll (or run) on by. Have you ever become bored after dating someone for a while because they moved really slowly in getting to know you, wanting to see you again, or committing to an exclusive relationship with you? Did you hope that […]

I was six months free of an abusive relationship when I got the text. It was from Beau, a coworker. “Someone sent me nude pics of you,” he wrote. I’d spent the entire morning trying to figure out what I was going to eat for lunch, not realizing my naked photos had already been sent […]

1. The Too-Much-In-Love Couple Between the constant “I love my honey sooooo much!!” and “I have the most amazing husband in the whole world!!!” updates, these couples do proclaim too much. Their updates are filled with flowery adjectives and almost always include the words “amazing,” “luckiest,” and “best! ever!” Sometimes the updates are even addressed […]

1. You put your ex on a pedestal
. After a breakup, we tend to look at our exes as perfect. We look past the issues that caused the breakup and remember only the good parts of a relationship. Even worse, we don’t see our own contributions to how the relationship failed. This rose-colored glasses viewpoint […]