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“Your unconscious mind is always moving you away from whatever you fear and trying to keep you in your comfort zone, so if you are alone you aren’t afraid of being alone. You may fear the opposite — finding true love.”

Remaining in your comfort zone may lead you to choose a relationship even if you think it isn’t the best relationship or the right person. You’ll find the greatest relationship when you step outside of your comfort zone.

Over time this cycle can repeat; you’ll continually find yourself in bad relationships, and you get even more comfortable with each one. Imagine how this behavior can increase your fear of being alone or single, but in a weird way keep you in (bad) relationships. What an ugly cycle!

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