As men age, they continue to place a high priority on sexual pleasure and performance. Similarly to women, they value their erotic lives and the emotional closeness of a relationship.
But what is it that men define as great sex?
As men mature their sexual needs change and they begin to appreciate some surprising things about sex.
The number one sexual need for men is to please their partner. The idea of pleasing you – giving you an orgasm, watching you writhe in pleasure – can make a man feel powerful and turned on. Studies show that men will give up their own orgasm in order to give you a mind blowing one. By teaching them how to please you, you give them the opportunity to fill their greatest need in bed.
Second, they really want to see that you are into it. Making noise; moaning softly and whispering how much you are enjoying sex shows men that they are on the right track. Men love when you allow yourself to give in to the pleasure of sex. Men desire a woman, not for a perfect body, but one who can experience and express pleasure during lovemaking.