1. Slather the love on your body. Sexy comes from embracing your physical form by firing up the energy within. Find that place in your heart to see the beauty of your body, and feel it in every fiber of your being. Without your body you would merely be a talking head. Cant put your arms around words in bed. Lover’s life and the act of sex would have a whole different meaning without your beautiful body. Rejoice in her – find the love for the form that willingly jumps to your biding. Try wearing sexy underwear or go with out panties while wearing a dress. You might be surprised how freeing and sexyilious it feels.
2. Learn to take a compliment with grace. It takes an elegance of ease to be comfortable enough to accept praise, without an excuse or a brush-off. It is incredibly electrifying to be in the presence of someone who doesn’t get uncomfortable when they hear something delicious about themselves Embrace the compliment, feel the truth of it down to your marrow, and recognize that it takes guts to give a compliment. Dont analyze it or down grade yourself or the giver. Relish the sexiness of recognition.
3. Do the things that turn you on. Whatever that is, find your light switch and pump up the voltage. Whether it’s painting with your feet or walking barefoot to work. Be present to your presence. Live fully in your skin. Doing what you love brings a glow to your energy and a sparkle to your eyes that sends out powerful signals. Confidence comes from being willing to wear your inner side on the outside, and that trust in who you are, is Irresistable.
4. Ask for what you want. Get cozy with recognizing and expressing exactly what that is by being direct, come from a place of joy, with no strings attached to the outcome. Coyness and pretence is boring. So is sitting on the sidelines waiting for permission to take your turn. Women are really good at swallowing their needs and taking care of everyone else. While it might seem like the perfect solution, it fails miserably at creating happiness because no one gets what they want if we are all running around compromising and pretending. Silent niceness is poison which breeds guilt, sulks and all kill sex appeal. Getting mad or manipulative because you were too nice to ask for what you wanted is a lousy way to build relationships or launch flirting encounters of the juicy kind.