Steps To Take If You Feel You Slept With Him A Little Too Soon

1. Foremost, Forgive Yourself

Many people have slept together in the very early stages of a relationship and have continued to stay together. It is your reaction to the event that will determine the outcome, so no regretting or being too hard on yourself. Go straight to the mirror and say the famous Louise L. Hay quote: “I love you anyway. All is well. Everything is working out for my highest good. Out of this situation only good will come. I am safe.” Be kind, be nice, and pour a bubble bath. Be good to yourself.

2. Don’t Change A Damn Thing

Have a good cry or scream, call your girlfriend or run the Olympics, but whatever you do, do not get into panic mode. Take a deep breath, stop obsessing and don’t contact him out of impulse and fear. Don’t Facebook stalk him or start any other form of nudging or stalking; this is all forbidden. Instead, relax. You are just getting into your own head because of a temporary blip along the road. One year from now, this problem won’t be important.