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3 Biggest Mistakes Women Make in the Bedroom

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by Charlene Santos,GALTime.com Staff

 

 

Who doesn’t need to spice up their bedroom routine every once in a while? You love your partner and assume he’ll initiate sex, so it’s all good, right? Not so fast! Did you ever think about what YOUR role is…what you could be doing to turn up the heat? We did, so we asked renowned sex expert and family therapist Dr. Jane Greer. She says these are the three biggest mistakes women make  in the bedroom:

Mistake #1: Comfy Clothes

I know, ladies, that you want to be in those those comfortable nightgowns, those comfortabe jammies, that you wear. But, honestly, the quickest turn-off to your partner or spouse are your comfy clothes. So, if you want to spice things up in your love life, shed those comfy clothes and find a nice, hot bra or a nice nighty, something you can be slinky, sexy and comfortable in that will be a TURN-ON to your partner.

Mistake #2: NOT Taking the Lead

Don’t wait to get asked to dance, meaning you’ve got to take the lead. Here’s how.

Mistake #3: Criticism

It’s to be avoided at all costs. Nothing will turn off your partner faster than you telling him what you DON’T like and what you don’t want taking place. On the other hand, what will be a complete arousal and turn-on is letting him know what he CAN do to please you and what will excite you if he does it.

So, tell him what you like, wear those sexy clothes and, most importantly of all, take the lead so that you can have the fun you’re looking for!

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Who doesn’t need to spice up their bedroom routine every once in a while? You love your partner and assume he’ll initiate sex, so it’s all good, right? Not so fast! Did you ever think about what YOUR role is…what you could be doing to turn up the heat? We did, so we asked renowned sex expert and family therapist Dr. Jane Greer. She says these are the three biggest mistakes women make  in the bedroom:

Mistake #1: Comfy Clothes

I know, ladies, that you want to be in those those comfortable nightgowns, those comfortabe jammies, that you wear. But, honestly, the quickest turn-off to your partner or spouse are your comfy clothes. So, if you want to spice things up in your love life, shed those comfy clothes and find a nice, hot bra or a nice nighty, something you can be slinky, sexy and comfortable in that will be a TURN-ON to your partner.

Mistake #2: NOT Taking the Lead

Don’t wait to get asked to dance, meaning you’ve got to take the lead. Here’s how.

Mistake #3: Criticism

It’s to be avoided at all costs. Nothing will turn off your partner faster than you telling him what you DON’T like and what you don’t want taking place. On the other hand, what will be a complete arousal and turn-on is letting him know what he CAN do to please you and what will excite you if he does it.

So, tell him what you like, wear those sexy clothes and, most importantly of all, take the lead so that you can have the fun you’re looking for!

Related:

Ultimate Guide to Sexy Lingerie

Champagne: Good For Your Love Life AND Your Heart?

Time To Spring Clean– YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Test Your Marriage-Money Skills. Take this QUIZ

Are You in A Mine, Yours or Ours Relationship?

Why are So Many Smart Women STUPID About Men?

Check out GALTime.com for all the latest in relationships, parenting, health, money, career, home improvement, recipes & more!