8 Mistakes Men Make To Ruin A Relationship

By yeahshesaidit May 3, 2010 12:00 pm

I wrote a post entitled “8 Mistakes Women Make To Ruin A Relationship” and received high fives and applause from men all around the world who felt that I had single-handedly grasped many of the mistakes that women make when dealing with their men. Now it is time to flip the script and remind the fellas the role they play in the demise of a relationship. Please feel free to add on any other mistakes.

1. Not Spending Enough Time With Her

Women enjoy spending time with their man. They want to know that he in turn enjoys his time with her as well. They want to know that him spending time with her is not burdensome in anyway. They certainly do not want to beg for attention.

2. Making The Same Mistakes Over And Over Again Once You Have Been Forgiven

This one is a case for when pure stupidity comes into play. Once you have been forgiven for whatever mistake you have made, do not, I repeat do not continue to make the same mistake over and over. This is how a woman becomes fed up with you and before you know it, all of your second chances has been drained. Then you are wondering why she will have nothing to do with you anymore. It is simple- She has given up on you. The smart guy is a quick learner.

3. Putting Others Before Your Woman

A woman never wants to feel like the man she loves is putting his freinds before her. She always wants to feel that she will come first in your eyes and that if she needs you, you will drop everything and come to her if necessary. In reality, deep down, you may feel closer to your freinds than your girl and share a special bond with them. That is absolutely fine, but there is no need to make those feelings obvious to her.

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4. Selfish Behavior

We want to always know that even when we are not physically around you, we are still on your minds. Therefore the selfish, “its all about me” behavior is a turn off for women. It may sound cliche’ but it really is all about the little things. For instance, when I would visit my boyfriend it would be a 2 hour trip. I would get to his house and was drained. He recognized this and would always have my favorite snack available for me. This let me know that he not only appreciated my visiting him but also paid attention to my likes and dislikes and took the time out to make sure I would be happy while visiting him…. To Read The Rest Go To YeahSheSaidIt