Birth Control Song ‘She Said (Don’t C– In Me)’ Goes Too Far
by Andreas Hale Posted Nov 24th 2010 1:00PM
Vulgarity in hip hop is nothing new. But sometimes an artist takes it a little too far. In this case we have Ray Jr. and Erika Kayne’s song “She Said (Don’t C-m In Me)” where it gets about as explicit as it gets. Have we no shame hip-hop?
The video initially looks and sounds like your run of the mill rap syrupy rap song. Crooning female singing the hook, synthesizers, woman and man seeming to engage in a baby making session. But then things start to look a little fishy as the words “It’s yours” fall out of the singer’s mouth as she sits on the beach. It still looks like a normal rap video, but then the hook comes in to shatter the concept of normal.
“Don’t c-m in me, don’t c-m in me!/You’ve gotta pull out, it’s feeling so good but I don’t want to have kids now”
This not only deserves a SMH but also a WTF for just how surreal it is to hear this kind of a hook in a rap video.
We’re going to let your dirty imagination figure out what the *** is. It’s the kind of hook that even the most filthy of filthy minds would blush at. But is it absolutely necessary for a rap song? Considering that Ray Jr. put up some money to get an actual video produced, you have to wonder if he thought this would ever get any play on MTV or BET. If he does, someone needs to give him an open handed slap in the mouth right about now.
There are so many things wrong with this song that we don’t know where to begin.
First of all, the singer is really trying to sing the life out of this hook. We don’t care if Whitney Houston’s sang the hook, it would never sound good. You know how sometimes you cringe when hearing an R&B singer croon expletives — especially if an elder is in the room? This song will make you want to dig a grave, hop in and bury yourself if a senior just happened to walk in while this song was bumping from your laptop. It’s not subtle by any means.
Secondly, the entire song is about not having babies when engaging in extramarital sex. However, hasn’t Ray Jr. ever heard of condoms and birth control pills? “Pulling out” isn’t the brightest of ideas when it comes to safe sex and honestly shouldn’t be promoted in a rap song.
But what do we know? We don’t have a rap song or a video. And after this, we’re not sure we want one.
