The biggest mistakes in most relationships start at the very beginning of the relationship, and most mistakes come from doing things out of order.  So the question is, if you start a relationship out of order can you ever get back in order?  And are there somethings if done out of order, irreversible? A young […]

You and your boo are shacked things are going well except for one issue…Your boo’s kids are grown and all they do is play video games all day and smoke cigarettes!! What do you do? Reach out to  Sam Sylk, radio host and author, and Bijou Star co-host of The Sam Sylk Show with Bijou […]

You every had a situation when you are doing something good for someone else but it turns around and bites you in the butt?  Well imagine trying to please your man, giving into his fantasy, and getting caught now you end up with the gift that keeps on giving, however you don’t know who all […]

There has always been an unwritten rule, or shall we say it’s never a good idea, to get involved in your friends, especially when it come to someone cheating on your friend.  Don’t lie when the truth will do, 9 times out of 10 when you tell your friend their significant other is cheating on […]

There is not a such thing as a perfect relationship, but what happens when you make a mistake and your mate won’t forgive nor let it go plus they won’t leave the relationship? A young lady reached out to  Sam Sylk, radio host and author, and Bijou Star co-host of The Sam Sylk Show with Bijou […]

Sometimes in life we find that some relationships work better as friends opposed to being husband and wife.  Unfortunately for some they figure that out after they have walked down the aisle.  But what happens when the marriage doesn’t work out but your friendship does however it’s too pain full for you to continue on […]

You have the perfect family, the man of your dreams, your blended family is loving seamlessly however every time you bring up marriage the man of your dreams switches the channel.  What do you do? A loyal listener of WZAK is having this very problem.  Instead of her reading a book or leaving it up […]

Having his baby is cool when you are together, but happens when the relationship is over and the support arrangements you made outside of the courts went out with your relationship? A new mother that doesn’t really want to put her baby daddy on child support because she moved on but he is using the […]

Is it them or is it me but do sometimes people get into relationships because that is the thing we are taught to do?  Doesn’t seem like people married and divorced quicker than they got married?  Is marriage about love, social status or a fad? A man reached out to get some advice from Sam […]

NeYo had a hit song that said ♫ that’s why I love you Miss Independent ♫, well everybody loved the song but men in real life really don’t want Miss Independent, so what happens if that’s all you really know?  How do you loose your independence without loosing yourself and when is the right time […]

We all would like to think that we are mature enough that when we cut relationship ties we can all just move on quietly.  But would you be mature enough if your ex brought your kids over to your parents house for the holiday plus brought their new boo with them?  If you were the […]

Comedians are a gift from Heaven that allow us to laugh at our pain as well as our reality.  So when Chicago native, comedian/actor Aries Spears star of the 90’s comedy show, MADtv, showed up on the scene that’s exactly what he did, made us laugh at reality. Comedian Aries Spears sat down live in studio with […]